BEING MINDFUL

BEING mindful and SELF-AWARE IS ESSENTIAL TO THE CHANGE PROCESS AND TO CREATING HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS. I’VE LEARNED THAT I CANNOT RELY ON THINGS OUTSIDE OF MYSELF TO ESTEEM MYSELF. YOU MUST RECOGNIZE and ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE little or NO CONTROL OVER EXTERNAL FACTORS. It is essential to Recognize THAT YOU CREATE SELF-ESTEEM, and being mindful of that brings PERSONAL HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS. IF YOU RELY ON EXTERNAL FACTORS TO DEFINE YOURSELF, FEELINGS OF SUCCESS AND SELF-WORTH CAN COLLAPSE INSTANTANEOUSLY WHEN THESE EXTERNAL FACTORS CHANGE.

Self-Esteem COMES FROM WITHIN and cannot be BASED ON THAT WHICH IS OUTSIDE OF yourSELF. If your sense of self-worth is based on External factors, YOUR LIFE WILL BE IN CONSTANT FLUX, DEPENDENT ON THE UPS AND DOWNS OF THE EXTERNALS YOU RELY ON. EXTERNAL FACTORS COME AND GO. Internal factors, such as knowing your true value regardless of your past history, builds solid self-Esteem.

I came to know a man who provided me, for the first time in my life, something I was never given — a healthy, loving, authentic role model who nurtured and cared for me. He taught me how to be a man. And he showed me that I am lovable. Of this I am certain: what he does is not something that just anyone can do. I have walked in my life a similar path of pain that Larry has walked in his. He is a very special human being. I don’t know what would have become of me had Larry not been there to take hold of my hand when I reached up from the depths.
— aL c.

LIFE COACHING FOCUSES ON LEARNING TO BE MINDFUL AND SELF-AWARE, TO CREATE TRUE SELF-ESTEEM, NOT ESTEEM based on externals. Being mindful AND AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS leads to happiness and SUCCESS. YOU WILL EXPERIENCE LITTLE OR NO PROGRESS IF INTERNAL AND EXTERNAl OBSTACLES TO HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS ARE IGNORED. WE WILL IDENTIFY INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL OBSTACLES, AND WE WILL OVERCOME THEM. WITH HARD WORK, YOUR LIFE will BEGIN TO CHANGE. THINGS will BEGIN TO CLICK, AND THERE'S NO BETTER FEELING. SOON, YOUR LIFE will IMPROVE, YOUR GOALS will be MET, AND YOU will FIND YOURSELF REACHING FARTHER THAN YOU EVER DARED BEFORE.

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